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« Thread Started on Aug 29, 2007, 3:59pm » | |
Okay, so I've been dealing with this my Junior and now my Senior year. There's this really heavy girl in my class named Katie. I thought she was really cool in the 8th grade and everything. All the boys picked on her back then because she's overweight. I wanted to cheer her up and I told her not to pay attention to what they said and everything and she suddenly smacked me across the face. I walked off to calm down, but I get upset easily and I can't control my temper. I have no patience whatsoever. I ended up smacking her back and I made her cry. I obviously think she deserved it. Well, last year I dated her brother and I found out her mother was racist. Hm, not to mention she works as a lunch lady at our school. So, she hates me now and Katie's been saying rude comments. Mostly racist ones. I always get, "YOU'RE BLACK AND DUMB!" or "YOU'RE BLACK AND SKINNY" or "CECE'S BLACK AND POOR!" I'm in her volleyball class and she always makes fun of me being skinny. I went to serve the ball and it didn't go over the net so she just HAD to make a comment.
"CECE SHOULD GO TO WEIGHT TRAINING!" Well, I've been bottling this up for two years and I can't take it anymore. I want her to know that I don't want to be her friend anymore. I don't wanna deal with her. I'm glad this is my last year so I don't EVER have to see her again. I'm scared I'm going to do something bad like hit her. I'll get arrested if I do that, though. I'm eighteen now. I already pushed her yesterday because she randomly started bear hugging me. I'm telling you, if she does make another comment I'm just gonna shout, "WELL, YOU'RE UGLY AND FAT!" I just know that'll slip out of my mouth some day.
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« Reply #1 on Aug 29, 2007, 4:22pm » | |
I'd go with tell her to leave you alone and you don't want to be friends with her. If she continues though, I wouldn't worry about what you say to her cause just my opinion, racist comments make you fair game to what ever comes back.
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« Reply #2 on Aug 29, 2007, 6:33pm » | |
I just don't want her mom getting involved. What if she made up some story about me hitting her daughter or something? The principal hates me already because I threatened to beat up a girl in summer school two years ago. Well, she kept talking stuff anyway. She deserved to get hit a couple times. Anyway, I would definitely get kicked out of school if she said something like that. x.x
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« Reply #3 on Oct 1, 2007, 12:11pm » | |
ok, i know what your going through cause i'm going through the same if not worse. Like for example the other day i got my fingers crush in my locker door. I've been badly bullied all my life and you know how i handle it?
I go to my true friends, hang around with them, think about how happy i am and that no one can harm me where i am right now. I face the bullies, and i know that there's one place that i can go and they can't hurt me, my friends!
I know how you feel, i slapped a girl last year for bullieing me and she's left me alone. But violence isn't the answer, i mean it made me feel good but it's wrong. If she's being racisted you can get her exspelled or kicked out of the school. Make your mum make a complaint, tell your head master.
But seriously, if you want my true advice. Ignore her, think off all the happy times in your life and those will help you get past her. It's what's helped me, i go through each of my lesson's knowing that at break time my true friends are there for me and will make me happy!
god i've writen alot!
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